Reparenting Digital Course
🌼Break Generational Cycles With Compassion, Awareness, and Inner Healing
Before you ever became a parent, your story began long ago. The way you were spoken to, soothed, supported — or not — created a blueprint that still shapes how you respond, react, and relate today.
If you’re here, you’re already breaking cycles.
You want to parent with intention, not autopilot.
You want to raise a child who feels safe, seen, and supported — without abandoning yourself in the process.
This course is your path forward: A trauma-informed, EMDR-grounded digital course that helps you reparent your inner child, regulate your nervous system, and become the emotionally safe parent you always needed — and your child deserves.
Learn the reparenting tools, emotional skills, and grounding practices that create a secure foundation — for you, and for the child(ren) you’re welcoming into the world.
🌱 Why This Matters
Parenting — or even thinking about becoming a parent — activates the deepest patterns you inherited from your childhood.
Not because you chose them… but because they were wired into you long before you had a say.
Through guided lessons, inner child work, science-based and trauma-informed tools, and gentle integration exercises, this course helps you:
Understand where your reactions come from
Identify and break old, inherited coping patterns
Heal your younger emotional parts
Build a new emotional legacy
Meet your own unmet needs so you can show up differently
Create the secure family culture you didn’t grow up with — grounded in connection, repair, and compassion
💛 Who This Course Is For
This course is for you if you want to…
Stop repeating painful parenting patterns
Feel less reactive, overwhelmed, or triggered
Strengthen your emotional safety
Heal your inner child
Build secure attachment with your children (now or future)
Learn trauma-informed tools for nervous system regulation
Become the parent you needed — and still deserve
No prior therapy experience needed. Just curiosity and courage.
🌿 What You’ll Learn
By the end of the course, you will be able to:
✔ Understand the roots of your parenting patterns
✔ Identify your inner child + unmet needs
✔ Catch triggers before they take over
✔ Build emotional safety through self-compassion
✔ Create a secure family culture
✔ Make repairs after rupture — with yourself + your child
✔ Rewrite your generational blueprint with intention
✔ Parent from clarity and alignment, not fear
You don’t have to repeat what you grew up with.
You get to rewrite it.
And you don’t have to do it alone.
📘 Course Modules Overview
Module 1 — Understanding Your Parenting Blueprint
Identify the messages, patterns, and emotional inheritance that shaped your parenting autopilot.
Module 2 — Your Inner Child & Why Reparenting Works
Meet the younger parts running your reactions; learn to connect with them safely and compassionately.
Module 3 — Breaking Cycles With Mindful Awareness
Master awareness tools to interrupt reactive patterns and build choice into your parenting.
Module 4 — Self-Compassion as a Parenting Superpower
Soften your inner critic, reduce shame, and cultivate the nurturing inner parent your child needs.
Module 5 — Reparenting in Action
Bring reparenting into real life with regulation skills, protective parent imagery, and daily micro-practices.
Module 6 — Becoming the Parent You Needed
Integrate everything you’ve learned to create a secure, intentional emotional legacy.
Bonus Lessons (included)
• Parenting with Depression or Anxiety
• Co-Reparenting with Your Partner
• 3-Minute Nervous System Resets
🎥 What’s Inside the Course
Full 6-module video course
120+ page guided workbook
Inner child scripts + visualization practices
Printable tools for triggers, shame, and ruptures
Safety plan, values map, and daily reparenting trackers
All future updates included
Lifetime access
⭐ Why I Created This Course
I built this course because I believe every family deserves emotional safety, and every parent deserves healing they never received. If we want to create emotionally secure future generations, the work starts within. We can do it!
As a psychologist specializing in EMDR, trauma, and inner child work — and as someone who’s walked this path personally — I created the kind of support I wish every parent had access to.
This course is your space to grow, heal, and build the emotional foundation you’ve always needed.
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Lesson 1: Welcome - Your Parenting Blueprint
Before you became a parent—or even thought about becoming one—you were already forming a blueprint. This lesson introduces the emotional inheritance we all receive and how it shapes our parenting patterns today.
What You’ll Learn:
• What a “parenting blueprint” is
• Why awareness is the foundation of reparenting
• How your childhood messages influence your reactionsBefore you became a parent—or even thought about becoming one—you were already forming a blueprint. This lesson introduces the emotional inheritance we all receive and how it shapes our parenting patterns today.
What You’ll Learn:
• What a “parenting blueprint” is
• Why awareness is the foundation of reparenting
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Lesson 2: Why This Matters
Every parent carries forward a mix of gifts and wounds. In this lesson, you’ll explore how unexamined patterns get passed on—and how interrupting them is the core of healing generational cycles.
What You’ll Learn:
• What “emotional inheritance” means
• How unconscious patterns show up in parenting
• What it means to break cycles with compassionEvery parent carries forward a mix of gifts and wounds. In this lesson, you’ll explore how unexamined patterns get passed on—and how interrupting them is the core of healing generational cycles.
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Lesson 3: The Science of Parenting Patterns
This lesson explores the science behind how childhood experiences shape adult nervous system responses and parenting tendencies. We’ll discuss the ACE study and the impact of attachment patterns.
What You’ll Learn:
• The ACE study (Adverse Childhood Experiences)
• Why ACE scores don’t define you—they guide healing
• Nervous system imprints from childhood
• How attachment styles influence parentingThis lesson explores the science behind how childhood experiences shape adult nervous system responses and parenting tendencies. We’ll discuss the ACE study and the impact of attachment patterns.
What You’ll Learn:
• The ACE study (Adverse Childhood Experiences)
• Why ACE scores don’t define you—they guide healing
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Lesson 4: Your Parenting Autopilot
When you’re stressed, tired, overwhelmed, or triggered, your brain switches into autopilot—ways of reacting that developed long before you became a parent. This lesson helps you understand and map your default responses.
What You’ll Learn:
• How autopilot forms
• Why it activates under stress
• What it looks like in real parenting scenariosExamples inside Lesson:
• shutdown
• over-correcting
• people-pleasing
• perfectionistic parentingWhen you’re stressed, tired, overwhelmed, or triggered, your brain switches into autopilot—ways of reacting that developed long before you became a parent. This lesson helps you understand and map your default responses.
What You’ll Learn:
• How autopilot forms
• Why it activates under stress
• What it looks like in real parenting scenariosExamples inside Lesson:
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Lesson 5: Your Childhood Messages
You learned messages about worth, emotions, and relationships long before you had language. In this lesson, you’ll bring those messages into awareness so you can decide which ones to keep—and which ones to release.
What You’ll Learn:
• The three categories of core childhood messages
• How these messages shape adult identity
• How they influence parenting and emotional reactivityYou learned messages about worth, emotions, and relationships long before you had language. In this lesson, you’ll bring those messages into awareness so you can decide which ones to keep—and which ones to release.
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• The three categories of core childhood messages
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Lesson 6: The Power of Choice (Integration)
The moment you recognize your patterns is the moment you reclaim choice. In this closing lesson, you’ll reflect on the patterns you want to rewrite and learn a grounding practice to use throughout the course.
What You’ll Learn:
• What it means to consciously choose your response
• How to begin rewriting inherited patterns
• A grounding practice for emotional regulation (“Parent Pause”)The moment you recognize your patterns is the moment you reclaim choice. In this closing lesson, you’ll reflect on the patterns you want to rewrite and learn a grounding practice to use throughout the course.
What You’ll Learn:
• What it means to consciously choose your response
• How to begin rewriting inherited patterns
• A grounding practice for emotional regulation (“Parent Pause”)
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Lesson 1: Meet Your Inner Child
Your inner child is the part of you shaped by your earliest experiences—carrying your unmet needs, fears, emotions, and longings. This lesson introduces how reconnecting with this younger part can transform your reactions, your relationships, and your parenting.
What You’ll Learn:
• What the “inner child” truly represents
• Why reparenting supports emotional healing
• How early experiences shape your nervous system
• Why inner child work is foundational to breaking cyclesYour inner child is the part of you shaped by your earliest experiences—carrying your unmet needs, fears, emotions, and longings. This lesson introduces how reconnecting with this younger part can transform your reactions, your relationships, and your parenting.
What You’ll Learn:
• What the “inner child” truly represents
• Why reparenting supports emotional healing
• How early experiences shape your nervous system
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Lesson 2: What Your Inner Child Actually Is
This lesson explains how your inner child forms and why these younger emotional parts continue to influence your adult reactions—especially during stress, conflict, or parenting moments.
What You’ll Learn:
• The science of implicit memory
• How emotional templates form in childhood
• Common ways younger parts show up in adulthood
• Why stress activates your inner childThis lesson explains how your inner child forms and why these younger emotional parts continue to influence your adult reactions—especially during stress, conflict, or parenting moments.
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• The science of implicit memory
• How emotional templates form in childhood
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Lesson 3: Shame, Guilt, & Why We Disconnect
Many people disconnect from their inner child because shame feels safer than vulnerability. This lesson explores why shame develops, how it protects you, and how reparenting helps soften these defenses.
What You’ll Learn:
• The difference between shame and guilt
• How shame forms in childhood
• The connection between shame and adult triggers
• How reparenting reduces self-criticismMany people disconnect from their inner child because shame feels safer than vulnerability. This lesson explores why shame develops, how it protects you, and how reparenting helps soften these defenses.
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• The difference between shame and guilt
• How shame forms in childhood
• The connection between shame and adult triggers
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Lesson 4: The Unmet Needs Inventory
Underneath most emotional wounds are unmet needs—needs you weren’t supported in expressing or having met. This lesson helps you identify those needs and see how they influence your current parenting patterns.
What You’ll Learn:
• The five core unmet childhood needs
• Modern adult behaviors that signal unmet early needs
• How unmet needs become parenting triggers
• How reparenting begins meeting these needs todayUnderneath most emotional wounds are unmet needs—needs you weren’t supported in expressing or having met. This lesson helps you identify those needs and see how they influence your current parenting patterns.
What You’ll Learn:
• The five core unmet childhood needs
• Modern adult behaviors that signal unmet early needs
• How unmet needs become parenting triggers
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Lesson 5: Guided Inner Child Encounter
This lesson offers a gentle, EMDR-informed visualization to help you meet your inner child with compassion, pace, and safety. The goal is presence—not fixing or forcing.
What You’ll Learn:
• How to safely connect with younger emotional parts
• A step-by-step guided visualization
• How to offer compassion without overwhelming yourself
• How to ground afterwardThis lesson offers a gentle, EMDR-informed visualization to help you meet your inner child with compassion, pace, and safety. The goal is presence—not fixing or forcing.
What You’ll Learn:
• How to safely connect with younger emotional parts
• A step-by-step guided visualization
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Lesson 6: Integrating Your Younger Self
Reparenting becomes powerful through daily micro-practices. This lesson teaches how to maintain an ongoing relationship with your inner child through rituals, check-ins, and compassionate self-talk.
What You’ll Learn:
• How to recognize when a younger part is activated
• Micro-moments that support inner child connection
• Creating boundaries with overwhelmed parts
• Reparenting rituals you can practice dailyReparenting becomes powerful through daily micro-practices. This lesson teaches how to maintain an ongoing relationship with your inner child through rituals, check-ins, and compassionate self-talk.
What You’ll Learn:
• How to recognize when a younger part is activated
• Micro-moments that support inner child connection
• Creating boundaries with overwhelmed parts
• Reparenting rituals you can practice daily
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Lesson 1: Mindful Awareness As the Foundation of Cycle Breaking
Mindful awareness is the first step in interrupting old patterns. This lesson shows how noticing your reactions with curiosity—rather than judgment—creates the space needed for genuine change.
What You’ll Learn:
• Why awareness precedes change
• How mindfulness interrupts generational patterns
• The connection between presence and emotional safety
• Why slowing down creates choiceMindful awareness is the first step in interrupting old patterns. This lesson shows how noticing your reactions with curiosity—rather than judgment—creates the space needed for genuine change.
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• Why awareness precedes change
• How mindfulness interrupts generational patterns
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Lesson 2: Understanding Your Autopilot Patterns
Autopilot reactions are protective behaviors learned in childhood. This lesson helps you identify your automatic responses—especially the ones activated during stress, conflict, or parenting moments.
What You’ll Learn:
• Common autopilot patterns (shutdown, freeze, fawn, overcontrol)
• How childhood survival strategies show up in adulthood
• Why children often activate unresolved wounds
• How to identify your top 3 autopilot responsesAutopilot reactions are protective behaviors learned in childhood. This lesson helps you identify your automatic responses—especially the ones activated during stress, conflict, or parenting moments.
What You’ll Learn:
• Common autopilot patterns (shutdown, freeze, fawn, overcontrol)
• How childhood survival strategies show up in adulthood
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Lesson 3: Mindfulness for Parents (and Future Parents)
Mindfulness isn’t about achieving calm—it’s about noticing without judgment. This lesson teaches simple, accessible practices that help you stay grounded even when emotions run high.
What You’ll Learn:
• What mindfulness really means
• How awareness interrupts reactive patterns
• 10-second tools for emotional regulation
• Why mindfulness strengthens your inner parentMindfulness isn’t about achieving calm—it’s about noticing without judgment. This lesson teaches simple, accessible practices that help you stay grounded even when emotions run high.
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• What mindfulness really means
• How awareness interrupts reactive patterns
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Lesson 4: Catching Triggers in Real Time
Triggers reveal the parts of you that still need care. This lesson teaches you how to recognize the earliest signs of activation and respond from grounded presence rather than old pain.
What You’ll Learn:
• Physical and emotional signs of activation
• Why triggers originate from early experiences
• How to identify your top trigger themes
• How tracking triggers supports reparentingTriggers reveal the parts of you that still need care. This lesson teaches you how to recognize the earliest signs of activation and respond from grounded presence rather than old pain.
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• Physical and emotional signs of activation
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Lesson 5: Parts Mapping: Parent, Child, Critic
Different “parts” of you show up during stress. This lesson helps you identify your inner child, inner critic, and the grounded adult self you’re building—so you can lead from clarity and compassion.
What You’ll Learn:
• The purpose of parts work
• The 3 main internal parts and their roles
• How the critic tries to protect your child self
• How to strengthen the reparenting adult selfDifferent “parts” of you show up during stress. This lesson helps you identify your inner child, inner critic, and the grounded adult self you’re building—so you can lead from clarity and compassion.
What You’ll Learn:
• The purpose of parts work
• The 3 main internal parts and their roles
• How the critic tries to protect your child self
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Lesson 6: Reparent Response Practice (Integration)
This lesson introduces the Reparent Response Formula—a simple, powerful process for shifting reactions in the moment so you can show up with grounding, compassion, and intention.
What You’ll Learn:
• The 4-step Reparent Response Formula
• How to pause and identify the activated part
• How to offer compassion before choosing a response
• How small shifts create new emotional patternsThis lesson introduces the Reparent Response Formula—a simple, powerful process for shifting reactions in the moment so you can show up with grounding, compassion, and intention.
What You’ll Learn:
• The 4-step Reparent Response Formula
• How to pause and identify the activated part
• How to offer compassion before choosing a response
• How small shifts create new emotional patterns
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Lesson 1: What Self-Compassion Really Is (And Isn't)
Self-compassion isn’t self-indulgence or weakness — it’s emotional stability. This lesson reframes self-compassion as a core parenting skill that helps you stay grounded during conflict, overwhelm, or stress.
What You’ll Learn:
• The 3 components of self-compassion (kindness, common humanity, mindfulness)
• Why self-compassion improves emotional regulation
• How compassion differs from criticism and avoidanceSelf-compassion isn’t self-indulgence or weakness — it’s emotional stability. This lesson reframes self-compassion as a core parenting skill that helps you stay grounded during conflict, overwhelm, or stress.
What You’ll Learn:
• The 3 components of self-compassion (kindness, common humanity, mindfulness)
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Lesson 2: Understanding Your Inner Critic
Your inner critic developed as a protective strategy — not as an enemy. This lesson helps you understand how the critic formed and how to work with it rather than fight against it.
What You’ll Learn:
• Why the critic formed (safety, belonging, performance)
• Common critic messages and their origins
• How the critic activates during parenting triggers
• How compassion—not suppression—softens the criticYour inner critic developed as a protective strategy — not as an enemy. This lesson helps you understand how the critic formed and how to work with it rather than fight against it.
What You’ll Learn:
• Why the critic formed (safety, belonging, performance)
• Common critic messages and their origins
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Lesson 3: "If I Were My Own Child" Reframing Exercise
This powerful exercise helps you shift from self-judgment to self-support by practicing the same care you’d offer a struggling child.
What You’ll Learn:
• How to identify self-judging thoughts
• How to translate those thoughts into compassionate responses
• How reparenting rewrites internal dialogue over timeThis powerful exercise helps you shift from self-judgment to self-support by practicing the same care you’d offer a struggling child.
What You’ll Learn:
• How to identify self-judging thoughts
• How to translate those thoughts into compassionate responses
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Lesson 4: RAIN Practice for Parenting Triggers
RAIN (Recognize, Allow, Investigate, Nurture) is a grounding tool for moments when you feel overwhelmed, reactive, or ashamed. This lesson teaches you how to use RAIN to steady yourself and reconnect with your inner child.
What You’ll Learn:
• The four steps of RAIN
• How RAIN interrupts shame spirals
• How to use RAIN in real-time parenting triggers
• How to integrate nurturing statementsRAIN (Recognize, Allow, Investigate, Nurture) is a grounding tool for moments when you feel overwhelmed, reactive, or ashamed. This lesson teaches you how to use RAIN to steady yourself and reconnect with your inner child.
What You’ll Learn:
• The four steps of RAIN
• How RAIN interrupts shame spirals
• How to use RAIN in real-time parenting triggers
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Lesson 5: Common Humanity: You're Not Alone
This lesson teaches the “common humanity” component of self-compassion — the understanding that your struggles don’t isolate you; they connect you to others.
What You’ll Learn:
• Why shame makes you feel alone
• How common humanity reduces self-judgment
• How to use shared humanity as a grounding practice
• Journaling prompts for connection and reliefThis lesson teaches the “common humanity” component of self-compassion — the understanding that your struggles don’t isolate you; they connect you to others.
What You’ll Learn:
• Why shame makes you feel alone
• How common humanity reduces self-judgment
• How to use shared humanity as a grounding practice
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Lesson 6: Integrating Compassion Into Daily Parenting
Reparenting becomes transformative when compassion is woven into daily life. This lesson teaches how to cultivate ongoing compassionate habits that soothe your nervous system and model emotional safety for your child.
What You’ll Learn:
• Daily compassion rituals (micro-moments)
• How to repair with your inner child after triggers
• How compassion supports emotional resilience
• How to respond rather than reactReparenting becomes transformative when compassion is woven into daily life. This lesson teaches how to cultivate ongoing compassionate habits that soothe your nervous system and model emotional safety for your child.
What You’ll Learn:
• Daily compassion rituals (micro-moments)
• How to repair with your inner child after triggers
• How compassion supports emotional resilience
• How to respond rather than react
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Lesson 1: What Real-Life Reparenting Looks Like
This lesson introduces what reparenting looks like in everyday life—through tone, presence, boundaries, and self-regulation. You’ll learn to respond to yourself the same way a secure parent would respond to their child.
What You’ll Learn:
• How reparenting translates into daily interactions
• How to spot unmet needs in real time
• The difference between self-soothing vs self-abandoning
• How to shift from survival mode to connection modeThis lesson introduces what reparenting looks like in everyday life—through tone, presence, boundaries, and self-regulation. You’ll learn to respond to yourself the same way a secure parent would respond to their child.
What You’ll Learn:
• How reparenting translates into daily interactions
• How to spot unmet needs in real time
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Lesson 2: Learning to Regulate Your Nervous System
Your body holds old stories. This lesson teaches simple, evidence-based regulation tools that calm your system so you can respond intentionally instead of reacting from old wounds.
What You’ll Learn:
• How stress responses trigger childhood patterns
• Science-backed regulation practices (3-minute resets)
• Polyvagal-informed strategies for grounding
• How regulated parents create regulated childrenYour body holds old stories. This lesson teaches simple, evidence-based regulation tools that calm your system so you can respond intentionally instead of reacting from old wounds.
What You’ll Learn:
• How stress responses trigger childhood patterns
• Science-backed regulation practices (3-minute resets)
• Polyvagal-informed strategies for grounding
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Lesson 3: Protective Parent Visualization
This powerful guided visualization helps you embody the protective, steady inner parent your younger self always needed. It strengthens your internal sense of safety and reduces self-doubt and shame.
What You’ll Learn:
• How to visualize and strengthen your protective inner parent
• How imagery supports nervous-system healing
• How this visualization shifts real-time parenting triggersThis powerful guided visualization helps you embody the protective, steady inner parent your younger self always needed. It strengthens your internal sense of safety and reduces self-doubt and shame.
What You’ll Learn:
• How to visualize and strengthen your protective inner parent
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Lesson 4: The Daily Dose of Reparenting (Micro-Practices)
Reparenting happens in small, repeated moments. This lesson introduces micro-practices you can use daily to nurture your inner child and build emotional trust within yourself.
What You’ll Learn:
• 10-second reparenting practices
• Integrating compassion into your daily rhythm
• How repetition rewires emotional patterns
• Building rituals of safety and connectionReparenting happens in small, repeated moments. This lesson introduces micro-practices you can use daily to nurture your inner child and build emotional trust within yourself.
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• 10-second reparenting practices
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Lesson 5: Repair After Rupture
All relationships experience rupture. What matters is how we repair. This lesson teaches you how to make amends with yourself and with your child in ways that deepen connection rather than escalate shame.
What You’ll Learn:
• What rupture looks like in parenting
• How to repair with your inner child after triggers
• Conversation templates for repairing with your child
• Why repair builds trust more than perfection ever couldAll relationships experience rupture. What matters is how we repair. This lesson teaches you how to make amends with yourself and with your child in ways that deepen connection rather than escalate shame.
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• What rupture looks like in parenting
• How to repair with your inner child after triggers
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Lesson 6: Integrating Reparenting Into Family Life
This lesson helps you weave reparenting into your family culture—through rituals, tone, boundaries, and emotional safety cues. Integration means living your healing, not just understanding it.
What You’ll Learn:
• How to create a nurturing home atmosphere
• Family rituals that foster safety and connection
• How to maintain progress during stressful seasons
• How to protect your healing in relationshipsThis lesson helps you weave reparenting into your family culture—through rituals, tone, boundaries, and emotional safety cues. Integration means living your healing, not just understanding it.
What You’ll Learn:
• How to create a nurturing home atmosphere
• Family rituals that foster safety and connection
• How to maintain progress during stressful seasons
• How to protect your healing in relationships
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Lesson 1: Who You Are Becoming
This lesson helps you step into the identity of your reparented self — the grounded, compassionate inner parent who leads with intention rather than old patterns.
What You’ll Learn:
• Why identity anchors create lasting change
• How to shift from “trying to change” to “being the new version of yourself”
• How to name the qualities of the parent you are becomingThis lesson helps you step into the identity of your reparented self — the grounded, compassionate inner parent who leads with intention rather than old patterns.
What You’ll Learn:
• Why identity anchors create lasting change
• How to shift from “trying to change” to “being the new version of yourself”
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Lesson 2: Future Self Letter ("The Parent I'm Becoming")
You’ll write a compassionate, empowering letter from your future self — the healed, grounded version of you — to your present self. This practice strengthens motivation and nurtures hope.
What You’ll Learn:
• How future visualization shapes emotional patterns
• How to speak to yourself with compassion and clarity
• Why future-self work accelerates reparentingYou’ll write a compassionate, empowering letter from your future self — the healed, grounded version of you — to your present self. This practice strengthens motivation and nurtures hope.
What You’ll Learn:
• How future visualization shapes emotional patterns
• How to speak to yourself with compassion and clarity
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Lesson 3: Creating Your Family Values Map
This lesson guides you through defining your core family values — the emotional tone, behaviors, and relational patterns you want your home to embody.
What You’ll Learn:
• Why values guide emotional and behavioral choices
• How to identify the values you want to keep from your upbringing
• How to define new values that break generational cyclesThis lesson guides you through defining your core family values — the emotional tone, behaviors, and relational patterns you want your home to embody.
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• Why values guide emotional and behavioral choices
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Lesson 4: Safety Signals For Your Home
Safety Signals are the small rituals, words, tones, and behaviors that let you and your child know: “This is a safe place to be human.” This lesson helps you design these signals intentionally.
What You’ll Learn:
• How to create emotional safety in your home
• Rituals and cues that soothe the nervous system
• How tone, repair, and presence shift the entire family cultureSafety Signals are the small rituals, words, tones, and behaviors that let you and your child know: “This is a safe place to be human.” This lesson helps you design these signals intentionally.
What You’ll Learn:
• How to create emotional safety in your home
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Lesson 5: Long-Term Integration: A Sustainable Reparenting Practice
This lesson helps you build a maintenance plan so your reparenting work continues long after the course ends. You’ll learn how to protect your progress during stressful seasons and real-life challenges.
What You’ll Learn:
• How to build sustainable emotional habits
• How to navigate setbacks with compassion
• How to track your growth over time
• How to keep strengthening your inner parentThis lesson helps you build a maintenance plan so your reparenting work continues long after the course ends. You’ll learn how to protect your progress during stressful seasons and real-life challenges.
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• How to build sustainable emotional habits
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Lesson 6: Closing Integration: You Are Your Child's Safe Place
This final lesson honors the depth of the work you’ve done and helps you anchor your new identity as both a reparented adult and a secure parent.
What You’ll Learn:
• How to celebrate growth and progress
• How to honor your inner child’s courage
• How to hold yourself through future challenges
• How your reparenting creates generational changeThis final lesson honors the depth of the work you’ve done and helps you anchor your new identity as both a reparented adult and a secure parent.
What You’ll Learn:
• How to celebrate growth and progress
• How to honor your inner child’s courage
• How to hold yourself through future challenges
• How your reparenting creates generational change
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Bonus Lesson 1: Parenting When You Live With Depression or Anxiety
This lesson supports parents and aspiring parents who struggle with depression, anxiety, or both. You’ll learn how symptoms affect parenting, how to recognize your limits with compassion, and how to create a sustainable emotional care plan for yourself and your child.
This lesson supports parents and aspiring parents who struggle with depression, anxiety, or both. You’ll learn how symptoms affect parenting, how to recognize your limits with compassion, and how to create a sustainable emotional care plan for yourself and your child.
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Bonus Lesson 2: How to Co-Reparent With A Partner or Co-Parent
Reparenting doesn’t happen in isolation. This lesson teaches how to navigate differences in parenting styles, communicate needs clearly, and build a shared vision of emotional safety — even if co-parenting has been historically tense or misaligned.
Reparenting doesn’t happen in isolation. This lesson teaches how to navigate differences in parenting styles, communicate needs clearly, and build a shared vision of emotional safety — even if co-parenting has been historically tense or misaligned.
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Bonus Lesson 3: Quick 3-Minute Nervous System Resets
This lesson gives you quick, practical tools you can use any time to regulate your nervous system — even in the car, during a meltdown, between meetings, or when you feel yourself slipping into old patterns.
This lesson gives you quick, practical tools you can use any time to regulate your nervous system — even in the car, during a meltdown, between meetings, or when you feel yourself slipping into old patterns.
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FAQs
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Reparenting is the process of healing the younger parts of you that didn’t receive the emotional safety, attunement, or support they needed. This course offers a step-by-step, trauma-informed reparenting framework rooted in EMDR principles, inner child healing, and cycle-breaking tools. You’ll learn how to regulate your nervous system, transform triggers, and build emotional safety for yourself and your child.
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Yes. Many students are aspiring parents who want to break generational cycles before they start a family. Reparenting and inner child healing strengthen emotional regulation and attachment patterns long before parenting begins. Reparenting begins before parenting. This course helps you prevent repeating painful cycles.
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The course is entirely self-paced. Most people complete it in 4-8 weeks.
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No. This course is self-paced and educational, not therapy. You’ll learn reparenting tools, EMDR-informed practices, and emotional regulation strategies, but it does not replace professional mental health treatment.
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Absolutely. It complements EMDR, CBT, ACT, and trauma therapy beautifully.
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Most parenting programs focus on children’s behavior. This course focuses on your inner world — the nervous system patterns, childhood messages, attachment injuries, and triggers that shape how you parent. It blends EMDR-informed reprocessing, inner child work, and reparenting practices so you can break cycles at the root.
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This course is designed with trauma-informed, self-paced lessons. You’ll learn nervous system regulation tools, grounding practices, and emotional safety techniques to support you through depression, anxiety, and overwhelm. Bonus content includes a workbook for parenting on low-capacity days.
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Yes! Many families go through the course together. The co-parenting lesson includes tools for shared communication, inner child awareness, and building emotional safety as a team.
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Absolutely, as that is the mission that drove the development of this course. The entire course is designed to help you heal your inner child, transform generational patterns, regulate your emotions, and model secure attachment for the next generation.
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There is no “behind!” Reparenting is lifelong work, and the course is intentionally structured to fit into real life. You can move entirely at your own pace.
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Yes — you get the full 120+ page workbook with scripts, trackers, exercises, and reflection pages.
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Because it’s a digital product with immediate access, all sales are final.
Disclaimer:
This course and all related materials are for educational and informational purposes only. They are not a substitute for psychological, medical, or other professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment.
Participation in this program does not establish a therapist-client relationship with Dr. Lara Barbir, PsyD, or Transcendent Therapy, A Psychology Corporation. If you are experiencing distress, depression, trauma-related symptoms, or any mental health concerns, please consult with a licensed mental health professional in your state or region.
If you are in the United States and are in crisis or thinking about suicide, please call or text 988 for immediate support, or dial 911 in an emergency.
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